Pros and cons of dating a man 10 years older
“He’s not ready for all of the pressures and responsibilities that go along with a committed relationship because his emotional maturity is not fully developed yet.” He’s either scared of love or loves you but feels like marriage means giving up his freedom, she adds—and that means you could be looking at girlfriend status for the long term.
Your biological clock is ticking away, meanwhile his might not even be turned on.
If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.
Guys tend to mature more slowly than women and at an older age.
If you catch a guy during his formative years, you can influence the man he will become.
This is great if you wind up marrying him and sometimes disappointing if you mold him into an amazing guy and some other girl winds up with him!
He respects you more because he knows that you have had more life experiences than he has.